It just doesn't feel like there is any purpose to it. Maybe I am just purpose driven, and I understand that sometimes spending time with people isn't about needing to have a purpose, other than the purpose of sharing time with others. And I know others don't feel the way I do.
Some still need you to understand where they have come from, the journey they have taken, the troubles they have endured.
I respect those journeys, those learnings, but I still want to turn to the future, and see what they are really wanting for themselves. That's where the happier feelings expand, the joy instigates itself into your life.
I know from experience that this has happened for me. I've turned from needing to learn from my past, to wanting to experience a better way of living my days...
Even though I am at a later stage of life, okay, I just turned 60, so I have a few years behind me, but I am suddenly, happily, looking to the days ahead. I feel that the past is past, and that the moment is now, to let the energy be full of wonderful dreams,and ideas!
I think, and feel, that we could be happier by talking up what we want for ourselves, and others, and for the world, Instead of wasting time talking about what's wrong with it, or our lives.
When I meet new people, it seems that we all start telling our stories, about what we have had to deal with, and not enough talking about where we are going. So, I am officially telling myself, no more. I will not be drawn in, even if I feel people don't understand me. Hopefully they will come to as time goes on.
I would be so much more excited to meet someone and hear something like "Hi, my name is...., and I'm currently doing, hoping and or planning to start a new area of......How refreshing!
And the energy that is sent out, radiates with a higher vibration, which is better for all of us.xxx